HR, the office and your own time

“We've taken it very seriously”

I reported a hostile coworker to HR and nothing visibly changed.

What's really going on

  • HR's job is to protect the company from legal and reputational risk, not to be your personal advocate. Sometimes that lines up with fixing your problem, sometimes it doesn't.
  • "Nothing visibly changed" often just means the outcome is confidential. HR generally can't tell you what discipline, if any, someone else got. Silence doesn't necessarily mean nothing happened.
  • It can also mean HR ran a shallow investigation to protect the company, especially if there's no paper trail or the complaint was informal and verbal.

What to say

Written follow-up to HR
"Hi [name], I wanted to check in on the complaint I raised on [date] about [brief description]. Could you let me know whether the investigation is finished, and what I should expect next? Thanks for looking into it."

Change the words so they sound like you, but keep the tone.

Still in the guide for this situation

  • 6 steps to take, in order
  • 3 more word-for-word scripts
  • 4 mistakes to avoid
  • 3 signs it's time to escalate or leave

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