HR, the office and your own time
“Great news! Back in the office, five days a week!”
My company mandated return to office and my commute now eats two hours of my day for no clear benefit.
What's really going on
- RTO mandates are usually driven by things that have little to do with your output: office leases already paid for, managers who are uncomfortable not seeing people work, and a belief (weakly supported by research) that being in person drives collaboration and innovation.
- Commuting is a real cost nobody pays you for. Once you count fuel or fares and lost hours, estimates run to several thousand euros or dollars a year. That's effectively a pay cut, even though your salary didn't change.
- A Glassdoor-based study found no clear evidence that stricter office mandates improve financial performance. It's a policy choice, not a proven productivity fix, so "we need people in for the business" may not hold up to questions.
What to say
"Can I ask you about the office policy? I'm curious what it's mainly meant to solve. For me the commute is now costing about [X hours and Y money] a week, and my output hasn't changed with location. Could I do [number] days in the office instead, ideally the days the team's actually in?"
Change the words so they sound like you, but keep the tone.
Still in the guide for this situation
- 5 steps to take, in order
- 2 more word-for-word scripts
- 3 mistakes to avoid
- 2 signs it's time to escalate or leave
Plus the 24 other situations and the bonus chapter.