Your manager

“Just make it pop”

My manager gives vague instructions, then criticizes me for not reading their mind.

What's really going on

  • Unclear expectations are one of the most common complaints people have about their managers, second only to micromanaging. So this is a widespread management failure, not a sign you're bad at your job.
  • It's often the "bring me a rock, no, not that rock" game: they have a specific result in their head that they never put into words, so anything short of a mind-read gets rejected.
  • Sometimes they genuinely don't know what they want until they see something they don't like, and criticism stands in for the thinking they skipped up front.
  • Sometimes they're just overloaded or disorganized rather than holding back on purpose. Doesn't make it fair, but it changes what fixing it looks like.

What to say

Before starting a task
"Before I dive in, what does a really good version of this look like to you? Anything it definitely has to include, or definitely shouldn't?"

Change the words so they sound like you, but keep the tone.

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  • 3 mistakes to avoid
  • 2 signs it's time to escalate or leave

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