“Meets expectations”
I got a "meets expectations" rating despite exceeding every goal I was given.
What's really going on
- Lots of companies cap ratings through forced distribution, calibration meetings or a fixed raise budget, no matter how well you actually did.
- Some managers privately admit they "never give exceeds," or won't give the top rating to the same person two cycles in a row. That quietly punishes consistent high performers.
- Rating and promotion are connected but separate. A good manager can rate you fairly and still lose the argument for you at calibration with other managers.
- None of this necessarily means your work wasn't good. Ratings are often shaped by budget and politics, not a clean measurement of performance.
What to say
"Can I ask how the rating came together? I hit every goal I was given, so I'm curious what exceeding would have looked like. Could you give me an example?"
Change the words so they sound like you, but keep the tone.
Still in the guide for this situation
- 5 steps to take, in order
- 3 more word-for-word scripts
- 3 mistakes to avoid
- 3 signs it's time to escalate or leave
Plus the 24 other situations and the bonus chapter.