Coworkers, meetings and your calendar

“Can you squeeze in one more?”

My calendar is back-to-back with meetings and I have no time left to actually do my job.

What's really going on

  • Meeting culture defaults to "accept everything," and nobody ever reviews recurring invites once they exist.
  • A full calendar can feel safer than an empty one. An empty slot means you have to decide what to do with your time. A meeting means someone already decided for you.
  • Roughly half of meetings could be an email, a doc or a five-minute call, but nobody questions the habit.
  • Deep, focused work has nobody defending it on a calendar, so it's the first thing that gets squeezed out.

What to say

Replying to an invite with no agenda
"Hey, what do we need to decide in this one? If it's mostly a status update, I'm happy to catch it async and give you the hour back."

Change the words so they sound like you, but keep the tone.

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